IF it hurts it isn't love.
So often in our lives we let others tell us what they think love is and do not follow our own hearts.If your life or relationship is painful... if it is hurting... then it is not based on love.It is based on fear.Don't allow another to convince you that they love you if they do not allow you freedom, if they imprison you with their values and conditions or if they try to control your life.
That is not giving you love.. it is giving you fear.Loving another person is not about possession or ownership.It is not about control or manipulation.If you love someone enough you will allow them the most freedom they have ever had... so much freedom and support that they can shine as the divine human being they are... and if they are meant for you then they will always... always...come back to you. :)
So called love with conditions causes pain. And it does not endure.If I am friends with you, then you will do this for me.... I will expect this from you! If I am your lover, you will do as I say! I will tell you who you can see! Manipulation, control yes, but friendship or love most certainly not.For love to work it always needs to be unconditional... To give love without demanding or expecting a return is the purest form of love.And it is the most satisfying.
Like the love of a parent for a child. There can be no expectation.. no demand... no stipulation.When you give this sort of love then you feel immense freedom in yourself too because you are loving for the sake of loving and not waiting in anticipation for what may or may not be returned to you.And you believe, as you should, that because you are putting out all this love the universe will return it to you a thousandfold. Yes, a thousandfold. But not always from the person you send the love to.
The universe will direct souls in your direction who are your angels. And when you recognise your angels well and you will choose the perfect romantic partners, close friends and buddies.The angels in your life will fall in love with your soul... and that is the purest love of all. This is the main course of relationship. Everything else is dessert.When you are not truly in love with another person it could be you see only a fragmented version of their being. But when you are really in love with that person you see the divine, loving essence in them..and because we are mirrors of one another it bounces back to you and you discover your own.
When I am in that place in me and you are in that place in you we are one. And we are free.So dear and so special friend... I wish you a life filled with love.. I wish you to be intoxicated with love... to move away from fear, to move away from painful relationship and to surround yourself with angels... the messengers of love!
p.s: i love you.. :P
About me
- kikichiizy
- KL, WP, Malaysia
- I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it. I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself. I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears. I own my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes. Because I own every single thing of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. And this is all ABOUT ME. :)
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